{"id":3636,"date":"2009-11-09T11:10:15","date_gmt":"2009-11-09T15:10:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/?p=3636"},"modified":"2009-11-09T11:12:52","modified_gmt":"2009-11-09T15:12:52","slug":"grown-ups","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/2009\/11\/09\/grown-ups\/","title":{"rendered":"grown-ups&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div align=\"justify\">In an earlier post, I wrote:<\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div align=\"justify\">I think we have the right to object to an abortion ban. But we don&rsquo;t have the right to insist dissenters pay for abortions they don&rsquo;t believe in. If we&rsquo;re &quot;do-gooders,&quot; then we&rsquo;d be better placed to do what Sara suggests and pony up for our beliefs in another way.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div align=\"justify\">Friend Ralph commented:    <\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div align=\"justify\">How far do you go with that? Should I not have to pay my [considerable] share of the cost of the Iraq war, which I don&rsquo;t believe in? I think I&rsquo;d also like to deduct my share of the TARP money that went to CEO&rsquo;s bonuses, and all of the abstinence-only sex ed programs, and a lot more.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div align=\"justify\">and Joy added:<\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div align=\"justify\">Ralph has good points as usual. The part about our paying for a war we don&rsquo;t believe in reminded me of what that awful Senator Lieberman said yesterday on one of the talk shows about why he opposes the health bill and how he won&rsquo;t let it come to a vote when the bill reaches the Senate because it&rsquo;s too expensive and will cause too much debt.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div align=\"justify\">As always, great points. But I want to elaborate my point further. I don&#8217;t think I quite understood my own point [yet] when I wrote that.<\/div>\n<p align=\"justify\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"86\" vspace=\"3\" hspace=\"4\" height=\"127\" border=\"1\" align=\"right\" src=\"http:\/\/t3.gstatic.com\/images?q=tbn:q7E_qKFjyuz-lM:http:\/\/media.giantbomb.com\/uploads\/0\/6420\/528781-meet_charlie_brown_big_large.gif\" \/>I claim that we should take the following &quot;high road&quot; <strong><u>because of<\/u><\/strong> Ralph&#8217;s and Joy&#8217;s point. National Defense is a legitimate governmental function. Unprovoked War of Conquest isn&#8217;t. Government intervention in a economic collapse is a legitimate governmental function. Bonuses to Wall Street hot-shots isn&#8217;t. Government intervention in programs to voluntarily prevent unwanted pregnancies is a legitimate function. Ineffective programs driven by religious ideas is not. A government health program that is &quot;too expensive and will cause too much debt&quot; isn&#8217;t a legitimate governmental function. Obama&#8217;s health care reform doesn&#8217;t portend debt and is a legitimate governmental function. The Republicans abused the government&#8217;s programs. Now they don&#8217;t want to pass reasonable legislation because they claim it might be abused. The solutions to abuse are prevention and prosecution, not avoidance. They use &quot;projection&quot; much like paranoid people. To me, &quot;I don&#8217;t want to pay for abortions&quot; is legitimate. But &quot;I want to ban abortions&quot; is not. &quot;You invaded another country with our <em>National Guard<\/em>&quot; is abuse of a legitimate governmental function. <strong>Prosecute!<\/strong> <\/p>\n<div align=\"justify\">The &quot;you did it so I can too&quot; argument is tempting schoolyard logic. But, if we are to represent responsible grown-up thought, we need to champion using it, and insist that they do too. <em>I wish I&#8217;d said that last time, but I didn&#8217;t quite know I was thinking it. Thanks for the nudge&#8230;<\/em><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In an earlier post, I wrote: I think we have the right to object to an abortion ban. But we don&rsquo;t have the right to insist dissenters pay for abortions they don&rsquo;t believe in. 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