{"id":4105,"date":"2010-05-19T00:46:18","date_gmt":"2010-05-19T04:46:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/?p=4105"},"modified":"2010-05-20T06:28:13","modified_gmt":"2010-05-20T10:28:13","slug":"cognitive-dissonance-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/2010\/05\/19\/cognitive-dissonance-3\/","title":{"rendered":"cognitive dissonance&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<br \/>\n<blockquote>\n<div align=\"justify\"><img decoding=\"async\" hspace=\"6\" border=\"1\" align=\"right\" title=\"Mark Souder [R-IN]\" alt=\"Mark Souder [R-IN]\" src=\"http:\/\/t1.gstatic.com\/images?q=tbn:8FYpe6T0E61vdM:http:\/\/media.washingtonpost.com\/wp-srv\/politics\/congress\/members\/photos\/228\/S001143.jpg\" \/>&#8230; When Congressman Mark Souder took the microphone at a tea-party  gathering of the Elkhart County Patriots last month, I thought to myself  that he must be feeling pressure from his deep-pockets challenger, Bob  Thomas, who was commanding the area&#8217;s airwaves with commercial after  commercial criticizing Souder as &quot;a career politician.&quot; Disheveled and  about the furthest from anything resembling dapper or dashing, there was  an urgency in Souder&#8217;s voice as he praised &quot;the premises of our  country&quot; and noted that it was necessary &quot;to put the fire back in the  Republican Party.&quot; Just after he denounced abortion, he asserted in  unequivocal terms: &quot;You have to have a moral people.&quot; <\/div>\n<p align=\"justify\"> <img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" hspace=\"6\" border=\"1\" align=\"left\" title=\"Tracy Jackson\" alt=\"Tracy Jackson\" src=\"http:\/\/i.huffpost.com\/gen\/166982\/thumbs\/s-TRACY-JACKSON-large.jpg\" \/>Today that line &#8211; and Souder&#8217;s entire career as a defender of  conservative social values &#8211; prompt head-shaking disbelief here in his  home state after Tuesday&#8217;s announcement that he&#8217;s had an affair with a  woman on his staff and is resigning his House seat, effective Friday.  Though he prevailed in the primary two weeks ago, voters in the Third  District of Indiana are trying to make sense of his sudden departure. Novelists can explain darkened hearts with greater ability than  political analysts &#8211; fiction offering possibilities reality rarely  affords. In Souder&#8217;s case, though, his straight-arrow consistency in  espousing personal ethics and conduct makes his confession all the more  stunning.<\/p>\n<div align=\"justify\"> A self-described evangelical Christian and MBA graduate of the  University of Notre Dame, Souder even taped videos about sexual  abstinence and the evils of abortion with the woman implicated in the  liaison. If a novelist can&#8217;t do justice to these circumstances, Jon  Stewart or &quot;Saturday Night Live&quot; probably can &#8230;<\/div>\n<div align=\"right\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.politicsdaily.com\/2010\/05\/18\/will-mark-souder-sex-scandal-hurt-the-comeback-chances-of-his-ex\/\"><strong>Robert Schmuhl, Politics Daily <\/strong><\/a>       <\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p align=\"justify\">It&#8217;s almost impossible to ponder this story without addressing either his remarkable level of hypocrisy or wondering what a looker like Tracy Jackson is doing with an unappealing guy like Mark Souder. And the part about his &quot;mistake&quot; is a bit hard to buy. She&#8217;s been around since 2004 and while the details are still kind of vague, it seems like his affair has been going on for a pretty long time &#8211; one of those chronic mistakes, spanning several election cycles. It can&#8217;t be passed off as some country bumpkin getting caught up in the fast life of Washington DC. Tracy was part of his <em>back&middot;home&middot;in&middot;Indiana<\/em> Staff, shepherding his interviews on the local Christian stations.<\/p>\n<div align=\"justify\">He&#8217;s getting high marks for his resignation speech because he didn&#8217;t have his family stand with him and because he took responsibility. I don&#8217;t give him such a good score myself.<\/div>\n<ul>\n<div align=\"justify\"><sup>&bull; IT HAS BEEN ALL CONSUMING FOR ME TO DO THIS JOB WELL, ESPECIALLY IN A  DISTRICT WITH COSTLY, COMPETITIVE ELECTIONS EVERY TWO YEARS. I DO NOT HAVE ANY SORT OF &ldquo;NORMAL&rdquo; LIFE &ndash; FOR FAMILY, FOR FRIENDS,  FOR CHURCH, FOR COMMUNITY.<\/sup><\/div>\n<div align=\"justify\"><sup>&bull; IN THE POISONOUS ENVIRONMENT OF WASHINGTON DC, ANY PERSONAL FAILING  IS SEIZED UPON, OFTEN TWISTED, FOR POLITICAL GAIN. I AM RESIGNING RATHER THAN TO PUT MY FAMILY THROUGH THAT PAINFUL,  DRAWN-OUT PROCESS. DIANE AND MY FAMILY WERE MORE THAN WILLING TO STAND HERE WITH ME. WE ARE A COMMITTED FAMILY.<\/sup><\/div>\n<div align=\"justify\"><sup>&bull; AMERICA WILL SURVIVE AND THRIVE WHEN ANCHORED IN THOSE VALUES. HUMAN BEINGS, LIKE ME, WILL FAIL, BUT OUR CAUSE IS GREATER THAN  INDIVIDUALS. IT IS BASED UPON ETERNAL TRUTHS.<\/sup><\/div>\n<div align=\"justify\"><sup>&bull; BY STEPPING ASIDE, MY MISTAKE CANNOT BE USED AS A POLITICAL FOOTBALL IN A  PARTISAN ATTEMPT TO UNDERMINE THE CAUSE FOR WHICH I HAVE LABORED ALL MY  ADULT LIFE.<\/sup><\/div>\n<\/ul>\n<div align=\"justify\">He actually sounded kind of mad when he delivered it. He&#8217;s in no position to lecture about a &quot;<strong>PARTISAN ATTEMPT TO UNDERMINE<\/strong>&quot; his causes, or to say, &quot;<strong>IN THE POISONOUS ENVIRONMENT OF WASHINGTON DC, ANY PERSONAL FAILING  IS  SEIZED UPON, OFTEN TWISTED, FOR POLITICAL GAIN.<\/strong>&quot; Why bother twisting anything. He&#8217;s done a spectacular job of undermining his causes all by himself. In the video below about abstinence-only education, he lectures us that educating kids about birth control if they fail the abstinence injunction is wrong. Well, he&#8217;s hardly one to tell us about that. And he&#8217;s preaching his &quot;family values&quot; even while he&#8217;s resigning for not having them &#8211; at least not the ones he&#8217;s talks about all the time. &quot;<strong>I DO NOT HAVE ANY SORT OF &ldquo;NORMAL&rdquo; LIFE &ndash; FOR FAMILY, FOR FRIENDS,  FOR  CHURCH, FOR COMMUNITY.<\/strong>&quot; So, it&#8217;s the rigors of his hard life in Washington fighting for family values that explains their absence?  &quot;<strong>I AM RESIGNING RATHER THAN TO PUT MY FAMILY THROUGH THAT PAINFUL,   DRAWN-OUT PROCESS.<\/strong>&quot; He&#8217;s resigning to protect who? His family, or himself?<\/div>\n<p align=\"justify\">I&#8217;m not really being fair to him. The discrepancies I&#8217;m talking about are actually symptomatic of the cognitive dissonance he&#8217;s caught up in right now. There&#8217;s nothing he could possibly say that would explain his moral creed and his philandering. He is still talking like a self-righteous crusader fighting the forces of evil that seek to undermine his sacred values, and representing the very target of his own campaign. He hasn&#8217;t yet figured out how to be where he is right now.<\/p>\n<div align=\"justify\">It will be interesting to see if Mark Souder will develop some hard earned humility as time passes, and recognize that he&#8217;s been asking teenagers to do something he couldn&#8217;t do himself. And I&#8217;d bet a pretty good bundle that there was some kind of birth control involved in his affair with Tracy Jackson. <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230; When Congressman Mark Souder took the microphone at a tea-party gathering of the Elkhart County Patriots last month, I thought to myself that he must be feeling pressure from his deep-pockets challenger, Bob Thomas, who was commanding the area&#8217;s airwaves with commercial after commercial criticizing Souder as &quot;a career politician.&quot; Disheveled and about the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-politics"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4105"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4105\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1boringoldman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}